Cravings and Triggers
Why Do I feel Terrible On Monday -- Only To Want Chemsex Again By Thursday
In this video, I explore what can happen between the aftermath of a Chemsex session and the point where the desire to use begins returning again — and why this isn't necessarily as simple as having “weak willpower.”
About this video
Why do you feel terrible after Chemsex, swear you won't do it again… and then find yourself wanting Chemsex again by Thursday or Friday?
That repeating cycle can be incredibly confusing.
We look at the changing emotional state across the week, how the memory of the negative consequences can fade, how anticipation can begin building again, and why understanding your own pattern can give you more choices about what happens next.
If you recognise this cycle in your own life and you're thinking about changing your relationship with Chemsex, Chemsex Freedom™ may be worth exploring.
Chemsex Freedom is my private, structured 90-day online programme for gay and bisexual men who want to understand and change their relationship with Chemsex.
You don't have to identify as an addict.
You don't have to have hit rock bottom.
And you don't have to have already decided that permanent abstinence is your goal.
You may want to stop, reduce how often you're having Chemsex, regain greater control, or simply understand why the same patterns keep repeating.
The programme is private and flexible, can be worked through at your own pace and around your own schedule, and covers areas including:
• Why you use and what Chemsex gives you • Triggers, cravings and urges • Repeating patterns and setbacks • Sex and sober sex • Dating, intimacy and relationships • Self-esteem and identity • Building a more fulfilling life going forward
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Chemsex Freedom is not emergency, medical or crisis treatment. If you're physically dependent on a substance, concerned about withdrawal, experiencing psychosis or serious mental health symptoms, please seek appropriate professional medical or mental health support.
You don't need to wait until everything falls apart before becoming curious about what's happening.
Sometimes the most useful question isn't:
“Why did I do it again?”
It's:
“When did the cycle actually begin?”
Not sure where you stand? Take the free Chemsex Reality Check.


